Ways to make people feel Important
The world is becoming cruel. People are fighting over race, religion, politics and so on. The ratio of depression is getting higher each passing day. And the suicide rate is uncontrollable. According to the World Health Organization, every 40 seconds, a person commits suicide somewhere in the world. Just think about it why would someone kill themselves? What’s so bothering about life that they can’t seem to handle?
You know you can help someone just by talking gently to them. You can make the other one feel better about themselves. So be kind to everyone because you have no idea what they might be going through.
If you are wondering how you can do this? then here are some of the ways you can do just by the way you talk.
Be authentically Interested
When someone is there talking to you, listen to them. Genuinely listen to them. Look at their face or if you’re comfortable then look into their eyes. Even if you’re not interested in what they are talking about, hold on and listen.
Show you care
If someone is trying to talk to you or you think he is in need to get heard, then show care towards such people. Yes, no matter who is talking to you, make them feel important. Show them that you care.
Do more listening and less talking
When you are talking to people try to listen more and talk less. They say “God has given us two years to listen more and one mouth to talk less”. So, next time whenever you are talking to someone try to listen to their whole story, don’t interrupt and start telling yours.
Use their Name
Next time you’re talking to someone use their name. Using a person’s name in a conversation can make the person feel respected. Beacuse our name is our identity so when someone calls it with our name we feel identified. So next time when you are talking to someone don’t forget to say their name.